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Does Your Closet Serve You Well?

3/26/2020

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​Do you feel like this?
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This was me about six years ago.  I kept telling myself, “I’ll clean my closet when I have time”. I was busy, tired, and overwhelmed. Managing our six kids, a business, and life.  I knew that I had to STOP and take care of my closet. This had become a place where I tossed stuff until I had time to put it away.  But, it didn’t happen. Not for a long time. I realized that I needed to take the time to declutter and organize.  

I spent one whole day decluttering my closet.  I sorted through my clothes and eliminated everything that I didn’t like, fit, or wear.  Then, I took the things out of my closet that didn’t belong there. And finally, I looked at the way I had it organized and I rearranged the areas that needed it.

I felt AMAZING and RELIEVED after I was done.  So many things that were in my closet went out the door; either to the trash, donation, or back to who it belonged to.  The “less is more” phrase is so true! Less stuff = more freedom. Freedom from the things that don’t serve me. Freedom from the feelings of guilt I had because I “didn’t have time”.  Freedom from the frustration I had when I couldn’t find something that I knew that I had.

Does your closet serve you well, or do you need to take a day and deep dive into your closet?  I would encourage you to set aside a day to tackle your closet. Supplies that I suggest before you begin:
  • Your favorite drink and snack
  • Trash bags
  • Bins, boxes, or bags to go to donation
  • Bin for things that need to be returned to someone else
  • Music or podcast to keep you motivated.  My favorite podcast is Organize 365.  Lisa is a great motivator :)
Know that this will take time, emotional energy, and perseverance.  I want to encourage you to organize your closet while you have the time.  You will feel AMAZING when you are done!
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I’d love to see your before and after photos!

For more inspiration, The Ultimate Closet Design and Organizing Guide.
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Let’s Do it Together!
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Too Busy Is Not An Excuse

3/21/2020

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How many times have we said “I’m too busy” or “I don’t have time” as a reason or excuse for not taking care of household projects?  How many times have we told ourselves “I’ll do ____ when I have time”? We are moving into a period of time that will allow you and me to dive into household projects.  We will have time because the world as we know it is slowing down. This doesn’t mean that everything will come to a screeching halt. However, with the restrictions that are being imposed, we will be at home much more than we have been.

Eating out in restaurants, for example, has been eliminated in many states.  (I do, however, encourage you to continue to order from your favorite restaurant via carry-out.)  Not spending time with family and friends at sporting, music, theater, and social events frees up time that you would be away from home.  You now are given the opportunity to use this time to focus on the various home projects that you have put on the back burner due to being “too busy”.  Here are some ideas of what you can focus on while you are home.
  • Kitchen
  • Laundry room
  • Closets
  • Bathrooms
  • Storage areas
  • Toys & games
  • Kids rooms
  • Paper piles
  • Photos
  • Passion projects
Look at the list and start with the area that will make the biggest impact for YOU.  What area causes you the most stress (and is most cluttered!) that you haven’t been able to focus on because you can never find that block of time to work on it?  This should be the area that you focus on first. 

Declutter, discard, and then organize.  As you tackle this area, you will not only see visible results, you will feel the stress that the disorganization created fade away.  I promise you will have a spring in your step!   


Prioritize the above areas, and work your way around your home while you have the time!  This may be the only time that you are encouraged to stay home! Kind of like a big “time out.”  Embrace this opportunity to deep dive into your home spaces.  

Imagine how you will feel when the restrictions are lifted and your home is organized.  The relief of getting those projects done is priceless.

What area will you focus on first?  Let’s encourage each other. :)

Let’s Do It Together!
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How fast can you find your paper?

8/19/2019

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If you need a document like a Birth Certificate, guesstimate how long it would take you to track it down:
  • 2 Minutes
  • 10 Minutes?
  • A day?
  • A week?
  • Your entire summer?
  • You'd have to file forms and pay for a duplicate copy? 
Do you know where you important, and not-so-important paperwork is?  Is it buried under a pile, in a file cabinet, in a storage room? Not knowing where these papers are or knowing they are not protected can be stressful.  It's even more stressful when you need something quick and have no idea where to start looking for it.

If your paper is organized, give yourself a High-5!  If it not, don't panic :)    Getting your paper organized isn't necessarily a difficult thing to do, but it can be time-consuming if you haven't tackled it.   The biggest problem isn't if you have enough storage space or if you need to buy another filing cabinet.  The biggest problem is that you may have too much paper!  Too much paper leads to a storage problem.  I bet there is a lot of paper that you don't even need, want, or use.  

Step 1:  Declutter your paper.  Look at all the paper that you have and decide if you need to keep it or not.  

Step 2:  Categorize the kinds of paper do you have left.

Step 3:  Create a system, place to store your paper and the best way for you to access it.

This is a pretty simplified way to start to get your papers organized.  The most important thing about this is that you need to START.  Not just think about it and wish it was done.  Start getting it done :)

Go back and read the 5 part series in organizing your paper!


I am looking for answers from you!  Would you please answer the short 6 question survey for me regarding paper? 

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Thank you so much!

If you would like more information, jump over to our website www.OrganizingYourChaos.com.  If you are stuck and would like to talk about ideas on how to begin, I am happy to speak with you :)  You can schedule a free Jump Start call HERE.

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Sentimental paper...what do I do with it all?

8/19/2019

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Do you have boxes, folders, and bins of all sorts of sentimental papers?  I bet you do! This is its own project!  After you have organized all of your actionable and reference paper, this is the third big project I want to address.

Sentimental papers can include photos, brochures from vacations, memorabilia, event programs, letters, kids art projects, and more.

Sentimental papers and memorabilia can be a hard thing to sort through.  Our memories connect us to events and feelings.  In no way would I ever suggest you get rid of something that is important to you.  You need to figure out the best way to store and keep your memories.  As you sort through them, you may find things that are no longer important.  The goal is to keep the things that are meaningful to us.  Imagine if you needed to downsize, what could you take with you?   What good are memories if you can't enjoy them if they are stored in a box under the stairs?  Think about why you are keeping them and come up with the best storage solution for you.

If you have kids, you may have all kinds of kids art and school projects as well as anything else they may have created.  Do you keep the brochures from vacations, printed programs from events, letters from your great Aunt Bertha?  Not to mention, all. the. photos.

Tips for photos:
  • eliminate duplicates, blurry, people you don't know, places you can't remember
  • if you don't want some, gift them to people who might enjoy them
  • create albums or photo boxes to store them
Kids papers:
  • you don't have to keep everything! (I have six kids, they don't want much when they are older)
  • Keep a few samples writing, math, artwork, report cards from each grade
  • take photos of the artwork, and create photo books to remember (you will still have the same "feeling" if you look at the original or photos)
  • ask your kids what they want to keep, you may be surprised at what they are willing to part with
  • kids artwork binder  (check out this binder here, and email me if you are interested in  getting one)
Vacation, letters, programs, etc.
  • photo album or scrapbook
  • shadow box 
  • online photo book
  • give items to people who may enjoy them
Sentimental papers and memorabilia can be a hard thing to sort through.  Our memories connect us to events and feelings.  In no way would I ever suggest you get rid of something that is important to you.  You need to figure out the best way to store and keep your memories.  As you sort through them, you may find things that are no longer important.  The goal is to keep the things that are meaningful to us.  Imagine if you needed to downsize, what could you take with you?   What good are memories if you can't enjoy them if they are stored in a box under the stairs?  Think about why you are keeping them and come up with the best storage solution for you.

Enjoy your walk down memory lane!I'll be back tomorrow to talk about what's next!  

Grab a friend and gather up your paper. Now, it's time to take some action!

Let's Do It Together!

Part 5 in a 5 part series
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Where does the reference paper go?

8/19/2019

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Reference paper refers to paper that you need to keep, but you don't need to access on a daily basis.  Some examples of this are mortgage, insurance, taxes, birth & death certificates, warranties, receipts for large purchases, and financial documents., medical and special needs paperwork.

Reference papers need to be easily accessible, but not stored where your daily actionable paper is kept.  First, decide how you want to store your reference paper.  Options are: folder and files, home binder, in a safe, or scan to an online storage system.

Once you decide how you want to access your reference paper, begin by sorting out all of our papers into piles.  Chances are as you do this process, you will get rid of even more of the reference paper that you initially saved during the initial paper purge.  

Traditionally, the filing cabinet was the way that people kept their paperwork. Now, as we have access to computers and online storage, more people are moving away from filing cabinets.  We don't actually need to save as much as we think we do.  And chances are, we have saved so much paper over the years, that we have just added cabinets, boxes, and totes without purging all old and outdated papers. 

Creating a home reference binder (3 ring binder) is a way to store your papers. This usually is easier access instead of using a filing cabinet or boxes.  You can create your own binder (if you love to DIY), or you can take advantage of binders that have already been created.  Purchasing a binder that has already been created with you in mind is a BIG time saver!  

Once you have all of your important documents sorted, you may want to invest in a safe.  This is a great place to keep birth, marriage, death, and divorce certificates.  I always suggest making copies of documents that you might store in reference binders as well.

If you are trying to go paperless, you can scan your documents onto your computer, cloud storage, and storage devices for safe keeping.  Make sure you know where the documents are as well as passwords to access them if you choose this solution.  You may want to make a copy to keep it in a safe with the rest of your important documents. 

You can grab my Reference Paper Tip Sheet here to help you as you work on your paper.

I have been using these reference binders from my friend Lisa at Organize 365.  They are a great solution, especially if you don't have a file cabinet!  And, if you would like to purchase a reference binder, feel free to contact me hereand I can help you get set up!  I am a certified organizer through Organize 365 and am All Paper Certified! :)  This means I'm one of those crazy gals who loves paper organizing!
I'll be back tomorrow to talk about what to do with your sentimental paper!  

Grab a friend and gather up your paper. Now, it's time to take some action!

​Let's Do It Together!

Part 4 in a 5 part series
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Actionable paper...now what?

8/19/2019

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Actionable paper refers to paper that has an action attached to it.  This could be making an appointment, responding to an invitation, paying bills, planning a vacation, reimbursements, ordering information, prescription refills, coupons, etc.

Where does it all go?

First, I would suggest that you make a pile of the actionable paper that needs to be taken care of this week.  This will help you see that you don't need to focus on all of it.  Just the most immediate and timely things.

Finding a home for your papers is pretty important so that you can stay up on things, and not miss deadlines.  I have been using the Sunday Basket paper organizing system.  It has eliminated excess paper and given me a place to put everything each week.

Papers are sorted into slash pockets, and stored in my Sunday Basket.  If you don't have either, you can start with folders and a basket or container to hold your papers.  It's important that all of the paper that comes into your homes goes into the same container. This way you eliminate losing things  :)

Create categories to hold your papers as you organize all the actionable papers that you have.  This can include family members, bills, school, work, errands, phone calls, etc.  This gives everything a temporary home until you take care of it.  As you look through your papers each week, you can easily sort what has come into the house each week into their proper categories as well as having a handle on what needs immediate attention.  

Leaving papers in piles and not giving them weekly attention can cause us to fall behind, forget things, and become overwhelmed.  I encourage you to take the time to organize your papers.  The initial investment of time and money will be a huge help and eliminate the feelings of overwhelm going forward.

I know it's not easy to get through all the paper, but grab a friend who's also living under a paper mountain, and share these ideas with her.  We all need some help now and then :)

I'll be back tomorrow to talk about what to do with the reference paper!

Let's Do It Together!


Part 3 in a 5 part series
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What do I do with actionable paper?

8/19/2019

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Actionable paper refers to paper that has an action attached to it.  This could be making an appointment, responding to an invitation, paying bills, planning a vacation, reimbursements, ordering information, prescription refills, coupons, etc.

The actionable paper that we have is what can bog us down.  These are are the things that we have "to do", take action on.  The things that need to be done, and we don't want to stop long enough to do them.  It's all of the things that we and our family need.  

Once you have all of your actionable paper separated from the rest of your paper, what do you do with it all?  It probably is a big to-do list.  So, now you need a system.  A way to organize all of the things you need to do each week. A way to plan out what's next. 

Two Tips:

1. Weekly planning time.  I have a time each week when I look through all the paper and then plan my next week.  Did you know that for every minute you plan, you save 5 minutes?  This means if it takes you 30 minutes to plan your week, you save yourself  2.5 hours of wasted time during your week!   So, weekly planning is essential for me.  I plan when I will run errands, make phone calls, meals, and shopping. This eliminates the "fly by the seat of my pants and hopes I don't forget something" problem.

Every week I look at what has come into my house and then plan what needs to be done.  Paper from kids schools, mail, bills, work, volunteer, social clubs, etc.  Anything that has come into the house get looked at.   THEN, I toss everything I don't need or want.  This eliminates unnecessary papers from hanging around.

2. Take action on the things that are necessary to take care of this week.  Just this week.  The pile of actionable papers includes a whole lot of things that need to be done, but not all of it needs to be done this week.

This is a GAME CHANGER for me.  It allows me to only focus on the things that are "dated".  The things that have a due date.  This frees up my head space to take care of things in smaller increments and allows things to get done!  You won't get overwhelmed by all of the things, and you are able to take care of just what is necessary for this week and I have much more productive this way.  Give it a try!

I have been using the Sunday Basket system for a long time, and I found that for me it works the best. 

I'll be back tomorrow to talk about where to put your actionable paper!  

Grab a friend and gather up your paper. Now, it's time to take some action!

Let's Do It Together!

Part 2 in a 5 part series
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How do I organize ALL.THE.PAPER?

8/19/2019

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How much paper do you have?  File cabinets, boxes, bins, folders, bags, etc?  Do you know what to do with all of your paper?  There are three kinds of paper that most of us have.  
  • actionable
  • reference
  • sentimental
Actionable paper refers to paper that has an action attached to it.  This could be making an appointment, responding to an invitation, paying bills, planning a vacation, reimbursements, ordering information, prescription refills, coupons, etc.

Reference paper refers to paper that you need to keep, but you don't need to access on a daily basis.  Some examples of this are mortgage, insurance, taxes, birth & death certificates, warranties, receipts for large purchases, financial documents.

Sentimental papers can include photos, brochures from vacations, memorabilia, event programs, letters, kids art projects, and more.

We can get so overwhelmed with paper that we don't know what to do with it.  It piles up on the kitchen counter, desk, baskets, drawers, etc.  The thought of going through all of the paper can be overwhelming.   We can become paralyzed just thinking about what to do.  If this is how you feel, you aren't alone.  A lot of people want to get their paper organized and don't know how to start.

I want to encourage you that you can do it!  You can take a step on getting your paper organized.  And, the first step is:  Start!   How do I start, where do I start, what in the world is the first thing?

Begin with gathering all of your papers,and begin with a sort.  You have one decision to make:  keep or toss.   Once all the paper is sorted, get rid of the toss (recycle or shred) and then you have only what you want and need and then can begin to organize what is left. 

This first part can take a lot of time, but once you have eliminated the paper that you don't need, you may be left with a much more manageable pile.  Now, it's time to organize the rest!
I'll be back tomorrow to talk about what to do with the actionable paper!  

Tell me, what's your biggest paper struggle?

Please share with your friends who can use some help with their paper

Let's Do It Together!

Part 1 of a 5 part series


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5 Questions to Take the Guesswork Out of Decluttering

7/9/2019

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De-cluttering can be overwhelming time-consuming. While it’s true de-cluttering can take a lot of time, the results can be life-changing!  Before organizing your space, I like to talk about getting to Ground Zero.  This is the place where all the unnecessary, unwanted, and junk is gone and you are left with the things you love and need.  When you get here you will then be able to begin to organize your spaces. De-cluttering first is key!
You know you need to de-clutter your kitchen, office, spare room, or garage.  You keep looking at the space and walking by it, vowing to get started “tomorrow”.  Tomorrow comes and goes, as do weeks and months. Why haven’t you started? Why do you keep walking by, feeling overwhelmed, guilty, and frustrated?   It may be because you don’t know HOW to start to de-clutter that space. It’s easier to put it off, ignore it, and tell yourself that you will get to it later.  
Here are 5 questions I ask my clients.  Answering these questions will help you to gain clarity and decide if you need to keep the items or not.   Let’s get to it!
  1.  Is this useful to me?  Is this something that we need in our home?  Does it serve a purpose, or is this something that I have used, but an not using anymore?  When you stop to think about it, we go through phases of life, and each phase has things that we have collected at that time, for a reason.  If you moved passed the season for the item, feel free to pass it on to someone else who may be ready to use it.
  2. Do I have something else similar to this that I can use?  I love to use the example of wooden spoons in a kitchen.  How many do you really need?  Sometimes we collect similar items that can be used for the same purpose. For example pressure cooker, crockpot or slow cooker, instant pot, rice cooker.  These four small appliances take up storage space. When is the last time you have you all of them? A solution could be: keep the instant pot because it can be used as a pressure cooker, slow cooker, and rice cooker.  This is one example of streamlining appliances or tools that we have.  
  3. Am I only keeping it because I spent money on it?  This can be a tough one.  Money is something that causes us to hold tightly onto things.  We can’t bear to let something go if we have spent a lot of money on it.  We ignore the fact that we don't use it, it doesn’t fit, it’s broken, we frankly don’t even like it.  But we are bound to keep the item because we spent money on it. I’m giving you permissions, actually, encouraging you to let go of these things!  If it’s not serving you and you won’t use it, why are you using valuable space in your home to store this item? Especially if you can’t even get a refund!  I encourage my clients to let go of the guilt, rehome the item, and chalk it up to a bad purchase decision. You know we have all made them! Toss the item, toss the guilt!
  4. Am I only keeping this item out of obligation?  The gift, the treasure, the things that someone thought you just had to have!  Sentimental gifts are hard. Keeping something because you want to because you have warm feelings about the memory associated with the item.  I am all about saving things! Keeping something that you don’t want or need, because it was a gift is not necessary. Would that person really care if you kept it?  Can you send it on its way to bless someone else? Please lose the guilt of holding onto something out of obligation. This can fall under emotional manipulation. Don’t go there, make your choices, and keep it if you love it.
  5. Am I saving this “Just In Case”?  This is one of my favorite questions to ask. I like to start with a) when is the last time you used it?  (good grief it its been years!) b) do you think Just In Case will be coming for a visit? c) do you know of someone else who has the same item that you could borrow if Just In Case comes to visit?   I also like to add, if you are an FB user and need something for a one time use, ask your friends, someone is bound to have it! 
If you are ready to de-clutter, I would love for you to join the July Weight Loss Challenge!  During this month, we are de-cluttering our homes, and tracking the weight of what we are de-cluttering.  I did this last year and our home lost 822# of STUFF!  Join us in the Organizing Your Chaos FB Group and download the free #JulyWeightLossChallenge Tracker to help you as you declutter your home!  I would love to know how much weight your home will lose :)

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    Monique Horb

    I coach busy, tired, and overwhelmed women who struggle with "winning at work and losing at home".  We work together to transform your life from chaotic to calm.  De-cluttering your home, paper piles, and over-flowing schedule will you the confidence, time an energy to do what God created for you to do. 

    I am a Christian, wife, and mom to six :)  I've struggled with feelings of hopelessness, depression, and overwhelm. I know first-hand that life can be really hard.  I also know that when you have someone walking along side of you, changing things in your life is so much easier.  We all need someone to walk beside us.  Let's Do It Together!

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